There is a phrase that has done more damage to chronic pain sufferers than perhaps any other: "No pain, no gain." It is a slogan born in the bodybuilding gyms of the 1980s, implying that suffering is a prerequisite for physical success. For a healthy 20-year-old athlete looking to build maximum muscle, it might be a motivational mantra. However, for someone living with persistent back pain, fibromyalgia, or arthritis, it is dangerous advice.
Pushing through persistent pain does not build character; it often makes your pain system hyper-reactive. It effectively turns up the volume on your body's warning signals, teaching your nervous system that even safe movement is dangerous.
It creates a debilitating cycle of flare-ups and retreats that leaves you doing less and less. At Kinetic Medicine, we reject this outdated model. We believe in a smarter, evidence-based approach to rehab therapy. We use science to navigate pain, not grit.
Table of Contents:
The Problem with "Pushing Through"
The Biopsychosocial Model Explained
Hurt vs. Harm: The Alarm System
The Sensitivity Cycle
The Solution: Graded Exposure
The Role of the Environment
Taking Control of Your Pain
The Problem with "Pushing Through"
When you live with a chronic condition, your body is often already on high alert. If you force movement through significant pain, you confirm your body's fears. You trigger a "fight or flight" response. Your muscles tense up to protect the vulnerable area, and your stress hormones rise.
This often leads to the "Boom and Bust" cycle.
Boom: You feel okay one day, so you do everything, clean the house, mow the lawn, walk the dog. You ignore the warning signs.
Bust: The next day, you cannot get out of bed. You are in agony. You rest for a week until the pain subsides.
Then, you repeat the cycle. Over time, the "Booms" get smaller and the "Busts" get longer. Your world shrinks. You stop doing the things you love because you fear the cost. According to Painaustralia, chronic pain affects 1 in 5 Australians, and this cycle is one of the primary reasons people withdraw from social and physical activities.
The Biopsychosocial Model Explained
We do not look at your X-rays and treat the image. We treat you. We use the Biopsychosocial Model. This is the gold standard in modern chronic pain management.
Most people think pain is purely Biological. They think, "I have a bulging disc, therefore I have pain." But it is rarely that simple. Tissue damage is only one part of the story.
Psychological factors play a huge role. Anxiety, fear of movement, and stress act like amplifiers. If you are terrified that bending over will cause damage to your spine, your brain will produce more pain when you bend over to stop you from doing it.
Social factors matter too. Do you have a supportive family? Is your workplace demanding physical labour? Are you feeling isolated?
Our approach considers all three. We manage the tissue load (Bio). We educate you to reduce fear (Psycho). We build a plan that fits your life (Social).
Hurt vs. Harm: The Alarm System
One of the hardest concepts to grasp is that Hurt does not always equal Harm. To understand this, we first need to understand that pain is created by your brain and nervous system, not just by your muscles or joints.
Think of your nervous system as a sophisticated house alarm designed to protect you.
In a healthy person, the alarm goes off when a burglar breaks the window (an acute injury). It tells you to stop and protect the area.
In chronic pain, however, this alarm system becomes faulty. It becomes hypersensitive. Now, the alarm goes off when the postman walks past. It screams "DANGER" when a leaf falls on the roof. The house is safe. There is no burglar. But the noise is deafening.
When you feel chronic pain, it is often this sensitive alarm system firing rather than fresh damage occurring. You are feeling genuine pain (Hurt), but you are not damaging your tissues (Harm). Understanding this distinction is the first step to recovery. It means you can move safely even with some discomfort, provided it is managed correctly.
The Sensitivity Cycle
Inactivity is often the result of a pain system that has become too protective. When your body is constantly shouting "danger," you naturally stop moving to silence those warning bells.
When you rest too much, you decondition. Your muscles weaken. Your joints get stiff. Your tolerance for activity drops. This means it takes less activity to set off the alarm next time.
This is the sensitivity cycle:
Pain occurs.
You avoid movement to protect yourself.
The body gets weaker (deconditioning).
Your pain threshold drops.
Pain occurs more easily next time.
Our goal as an exercise physiologist is to interrupt this loop. We need to prove to your brain that movement is safe.
The Solution: Graded Exposure
We do not ask you to run a marathon on day one. We use a clinical method called Graded Exposure.
This is about finding the "sweet spot." We find a level of activity that nudges the alarm but does not trigger a full flare-up.
If walking 20 minutes hurts, we try 10 minutes.
If 10 minutes is fine, we do that for a week.
Then we try 11 minutes.
It seems small. But this slow increase teaches your nervous system that you are safe. We are slowly recalibrating the alarm. We are widening your window of tolerance.
We track this objectively. We use data to show you that you are doing more than you did last month. This builds self-efficacy. It proves to you that you are not fragile.
The Role of the Environment
Recovery does not happen in a vacuum. The environment matters. This is why our clinics in Taree and Albury look the way they do. They are not chaotic gyms. They are calm, clinical spaces designed to lower your sympathetic nervous system arousal.
We focus on building a therapeutic alliance. You need to trust your clinician. You need to feel heard. If you feel dismissed, your stress levels rise, and your pain likely follows.
We validate your experience. We know the pain is real. We also know that "fixing" it is not something we do to you. It is a journey we take with you. Active recovery requires your participation. Passive treatments like massage might feel good for an hour, but as noted by Exercise & Sports Science Australia (ESSA), active movement is required to create long-term changes in capacity and pain tolerance.
Taking Control of Your Pain
You are the expert on your body. We are the experts on exercise physiology. Together, we can create a tailored plan that puts you back in control.
It is time to stop fearing the flare-ups. It is time to stop waiting for the pain to vanish completely before you start living. You can build capacity. You can dampen the alarm. You can get back to the garden, the grandkids, or work.
Start Your Recovery Journey
Do not let old myths dictate your future. If you are tired of the cycle of pain and want a scientific approach to management, reach out to us.
Contact the Team at Kinetic Medicine today. Let’s turn down the volume on your pain.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the Biopsychosocial Model of pain?
The Biopsychosocial Model is a clinical approach that views pain as an interaction between biological factors (tissue damage), psychological factors (stress, fear), and social factors (work, environment). It treats the whole person rather than just focusing on the physical injury, offering a more effective path for chronic pain relief.
Is it safe to exercise with chronic pain?
Yes, in most cases, movement is safe and essential for recovery. While acute sharp pain should be respected, "hurt does not equal harm." An Accredited Exercise Physiologist can design a graded exposure plan that slowly builds your tolerance without causing a flare-up.
What is the difference between hurt and harm?
"Harm" refers to actual tissue damage, like a cut or a broken bone. "Hurt" is the experience of pain. In chronic conditions, the nervous system can send pain signals (Hurt) even after the tissue has healed (no Harm). Understanding this helps patients move with confidence.
Does Kinetic Medicine treat fibromyalgia?
Yes. We use a validation-first approach for conditions like fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. We focus on pacing and energy management (often called "spoon theory") to help you build capacity without triggering the "boom and bust" fatigue cycle.

